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Monday, November 21, 2011

Take Your Time Mr. President

       Vol.1                                          Issue 22

If you're reading this, then I've died in Iraq. I don't regret going. Everybody dies, but few get to do it for something as important as freedom. It may seem confusing why we are in Iraq, it's not to me. I'm here helping these people, so they can live the way we live. Not [to] have to worry about tyrants or vicious dictators. Others have died for my freedom, now this is my mark.    Jeff Starr – USMC


President George W. Bush visited Kernersville, North Carolina on December 5, 2005.  He is only the second president to visit our little town.  Though he has driven through on the highway a time or two, on this day he stopped.

George Washington was here in 1791. Pausing for breakfast as he traveled from the village of Salem to the Guilford Courthouse battleground, he caused little stir among the citizenry. People still debate whether he rode in a carriage or was mounted on a white steed.  Few were present to mark the occasion so I guess no one really knows for sure.  A marker off Main Street commemorates the event.

Much time has passed since that first Presidential visit.  The dusty crossroads has grown into a community of 50,000.  So, when President Bush came to town, streets had to be closed. A manufacturing plant was shut down.  Elaborate security measures were enacted. Snipers climbed on roofs, and bomb sniffing dogs walked with stern looking security personnel. A mile long motorcade passed a few detractors as they stood in the rain with signs of protest. Sophisticated media from around the world descended upon us in a fleet of chartered buses. It was quite a sight.  A modern day motorcade now replaces the white steed.

Admirers clamored for tickets to an invitation only event. About 100 folks were lucky enough to make it inside. They joined another 100 or so manufacturing workers in eager anticipation of the arrival of the most powerful man in the world.

After a two hour wait, President Bush took the podium and talked about the economy. He bragged on local politicians and commended the fine work of those who built earth moving equipment for the Deere-Hitachi Company. He chided opponents to his tax cut and asked us not to forget to pray for our soldiers serving abroad.

After he finished, he quickly moved among the crowd shaking hands and signing autographs.  He smiled, laughed and took extra time to tease a youngster about missing school.  Understanding how important it was for folks to be with the President of the United States, he patiently posed for pictures and even donned a few ball caps for effect.  

Then just as quickly as he appeared he was gone and we all stood and waited. Security requires that no one leave the building until the Presidential motorcade has departed. Basking in the afterglow of the event, few seemed to mind.

Nearly 200 workers, politicians and well wishers mingled and made small talk.  Thirty minutes passed and we were still not allowed to leave.  Growing impatient with the wait many asked: “Wonder what’s taking him so long?”  Then someone said: “He has a special meeting.”  “With who?’ inquired a man sarcastically.  “Some high dollar contributor I bet,” exclaimed another. Then someone spoke quietly to a man standing next to him. Then some hearing what the first man had said, told others.  Soon the entire assembly was aware of what the President was doing and to whom he was speaking.  We all knew why it was taking so long. We all understood.

How do you comfort the parents of a soldier killed in the service of our country?  President Bush must ask this of himself each time he grasps a young widow’s hand. How do you wipe a tear from the cheek of a grieving mother?  How do you embrace the trembling shoulders of a devastated father?  How do you convey the immense gratitude of a nation for the sacrifice of someone so young?

While we were waiting impatiently to get about our daily business, George Walker Bush, the 43rd President of the United States sat and cried with parents of a young man recently killed in Iraq.  I don’t know what words he used or how he communicated our country’s sorrow for their loss. Words just don’t seem adequate.  But as far as I am concerned my President could take as much time as he needed.









Sunday, November 6, 2011

A story about the Apostle Peter...throwing off chains....


LESSON SEVEN - LOVE: 

Another Reality Check! 

Simon, son of Jonas, Do You Love Me more than these?

                                                             Jn. 21
 
I grew up in the first television generation.  While I can remember the days when there was no cable television, I have always watched television.   Accordingly, when I think about how things were, whether reading a story, or listening to account of another, my brain considers what it hears and transmits a television image.  Therefore, when I read the wonderful stories of the Bible, I see the stories from a Cecil B. DeMille or Francis Ford Coppola point of view.  My favorite character in the New Testament has to be Peter.  In my mind's eye, he looks like a bearded Anthony Quinn, strong and tough, but with gentleness beneath his rough exterior.  Peter as you know always wore his emotions on his sleeve.  He did not always speak his mind, but his heart.  He fiercely loved Jesus, but was often held back by human frailties of faith.  Yet, in spite of his human deficiencies, he experienced the full gamut of emotions in his walk with Jesus.  His faith allowed him to overcome the fear of nature's storm to walk on water with his Jesus, but his cowardice allowed fear to compel him to deny Him as his Lord.  The very church in which we worship was founded upon faith such as developed in this simple fisherman.  What an emotional roller coaster he was on. What a compelling figure he is.  It is with my favorite story of Peter that I have chosen to end this chapter on the Christian Love.
The story is found in John 21: 1-22.  It is as if the old apostle had finished his gospel and then remembered a meaningful story he had to tell, so he stuck in at the end of the book.  Because of its location, you may never have really looked at it in detail.  It is a simple tale of night fishing on the Sea of Galilee.  It occurs at a time between the resurrection and the ascension.  The disciples have not quite recovered from the miraculous event of meeting with a risen Lord, and have yet to begin their evangelism.  Most were fishermen, so they decide to go fishing, and who should appear, but Jesus! (A clever preacher could make an hour-long sermon on the fact that you just never know when and where you will encounter your Lord-I will settle with a parenthetical reference)
  Peter, who is fishing in a loincloth, realizes that it is Jesus on the shore, and does two things just as you would expect of Peter. He impulsively jumps in the water to swim to meet Jesus leaving his other disciples to haul in the fish; but, before he jumps in the water he puts on his coat. (When I taught this lesson I pointed out rather scholarly that it was a Jewish custom not to greet religious leaders naked - in response a member of the class pointed out rather astutely this was also custom in the Moravian Church as well!)  Jesus built a fire and after drying Peter out and eating a meal, He had a very pointed conversation with Peter - a conversation that Peter, and those listening, never forgot.

Simon, son of Jonas, do you love me more than these?” Jesus said, (perhaps standing, with waving gesture toward the other disciples). The question no doubt would have startled Peter.  For in the past Peter would have led with his heart and immediately declared his allegiance for his Lord.  Instead, Peter, still bearing the emotional scars of his infamous denial, simply responded, no doubt with a bit of distress in his voice: “Lord, you know I love you.”  “Then feed my lambs”, commanded Jesus.   Again, Jesus looked at Peter and inquired: “Simon, son of Jonas, do you love me?”  More distressed, but still wary of speaking his heart, Peter replied: “Lord, you know I love you.”  “Then, be a shepherd to my sheep,” commanded Jesus.  A third time, Jesus looked into the eyes of Peter, and asked, “Simon, son of Jonas, Do you love me?”  Most translations say that the question vexed or deeply hurt Peter.  Such a description of the emotional state of Peter is perhaps an understatement.  Peter no doubt replayed the whole distressing story of his denial vividly in his mind.  He probably could even hear the rooster crow.  Nevertheless, he stood firm, and probably looked Jesus in the eye, and replied submissively, but in strength of character borne of a life of trial: “Lord, you know everything.  You know that I love you!” “Then feed my sheep”, says Jesus.  “Follow me!”  He commanded, as He got up and began to walk away.  Peter followed, and in a few steps, he turned and pointed to John, and said, “Lord, what about him?”  In a tone sharper than used previously, Jesus retorted, “Peter, what business is that of yours, if it is my wish for him to stay until I come again, so be it.  As for you, you follow me!”
How does all this pertain to the attribute of love?  At the first of the lessons, we looked at the three love commands of Jesus: Love God with all your heart, mind, soul and strength; Love your neighbor as yourself; Love each other as Christ loved you.    Let us perform a reality check.  If Jesus would suddenly appear at a time and in a place when you least expect, look you in the eye and asked: “My child, do you love me?”  How would you react?  What would be your reply?

If you have learned anything in this lesson, you know that love is not a cheaply purchased commodity.  It is a thoughtful, committed decision to give of yourself to your beloved.  It does not depend upon outside stimuli and is a self creating phenomenon.  “Christian Love does not mean an emotion.  It is a state of will which we have naturally about ourselves, but must learn to have about other people.” (Mere Christianity, p.100)  According to Paul, we are called to present ourselves “as a living sacrifice, consecrated to Him and acceptable by Him.”(Rom. 12:1)  When King David came to Ornah's threshing floor at a time when he wanted to make a sacrifice unto God, Ornah gave King David an appropriate unblemished lamb.  When King David offered to pay, Ornah refused; to which King David replied: “I shall not sacrifice unto my God that which costs me nothing.” (II Sam. 24)  What have you given unto your Lord?  He asks only for love. 

Remember Dr. Covey's response to the man whose marriage had lost the loving feeling? “Love her,” Dr. Covey instructed, and then explained, “Reactive people make love an emotion, we are required to make love a value.”  As a Christian, you are required to subordinate your feelings to values.  If you are not sure if you love God, or if you don't feel like loving God, try to love anyway; if for no other reason than He has commanded you to. Consider the wisdom of C. S. Lewis:

Nobody can always have devout feelings, and even if we could, feelings are not what God principally cares about. Christian Love, either towards God or towards man, is an affair of the will. If we are trying to do His will we are obeying the commandment “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God.”  He will give us feelings of love if He pleases. We cannot create them for ourselves, and we must not demand them as a right. But the feelings come and go,  His love for us does not. It is not wearied by our sins, or our indifference; and, therefore, it is quite relentless in its determination that we shall be cured of those sins, at whatever cost to us, at whatever cost to Him.
                                             Mere Christianity, p. 102-103.

The second love command is that we love our neighbors as ourselves.  Loving others is a lot like loving God.  We are not required to have feelings of affection for those whom we love, we are only required to love them.  C. S. Lewis continues his observations:

The rule for all of us is perfectly simple.  Do not waste time bothering whether you “Love” your neighbor; act as if you did.  As soon as we do this we find one of the great secrets.  When you are behaving as if you loved someone, you will presently come to love him . . . The difference between a Christian and a worldly man is not that the worldly man has only affections or “likings” and the Christian has only “love”. The worldly man treats certain people kindly because he “likes” them: the Christian, trying to treat everyone kindly, finds himself liking more and more people as he goes on - including people he could not even have imagined himself liking at the beginning.                                                                Mere Christianity, p.102

The third love command is that we love each other as Christ loved us.  Jesus loved selflessly.  Can you?  Jesus loved sacrificially.  Can you?  Jesus loved with understanding.  Can you?  Jesus loved with forgiveness. Can you?

Most of us do not consciously know how to love.  We often stumble upon love, but few decide to give of ourselves to anything.  We live in an illusion that love feelings are all we need to get by.  The truth is though, that I seldom have love feelings about God, but I am commanded to love Him anyway.   I never have love feelings for those who make my life a misery, but I am commanded to love my enemies.  Love feelings are nice, but, they are not necessary for Christians.   For a Christian, deciding to love is a required response to life itself.  When you decide to love, you consciously accept the risks associated with your actions.  In fact, you choose to give of yourself in a manner that may be quite contrary to your instincts.  If this bothers you, consider that Paul learned that if “you cut the nerve of your instinctive actions by obeying the Spirit, you are on the way to real living.”(Rom. 8:13)

If you find that loving God is difficult, rest assured that your labors are worth it.  If you find that loving your neighbor as you love yourself is not easy, especially at those times when you do not like yourself, love anyway!  Life will gain new meaning from your effort. If the standard Christ has set for loving each other is too exacting, remember Jesus' command to Peter. “What business is it to you . . . You must follow me!”

If following Jesus requires us to subordinate our feelings to His values, we must act as He has commanded, and have faith that the Creator of all things understands how it is best for us to live.  If His way of living seems too difficult, we need only to remember the words of Thomas Paine:


That which we obtain too easily, we esteem too lightly.  It is dearness only, which gives everything its value.  Heaven knows how to put a price on its goods.

Peace as I Ponder a Reunion in the Yonder

Once I was afraid of dying,
terrified of ever-lying,
petrified of leaving family, home and friends.

Thoughts of absence from my dear ones,
brought a melancholy tear once,
and a dredful fear of when life ends.

But those days are long behind me,
fear of leaving does not bind me,
and departure does not hold a single care.

Peace does comfort as I ponder,
a reunion in the yonder,
with my dearest one who is waiting for me there.

Swen Nader, UCLA basketball player

This poem was a favorite of the late John Wooden